78.       Board Games

Pick a night, perhaps on a cold winter night, and just enjoy playing board games.  This can be with just the two of you, or with several close friends.  Bring out the snacks, beverages, and just have some fun.  Laughter and fun are important factors in any relationship, for any age.  Laugh and enjoy having a good time with good honest fun!  You will truly be amazed at what this can do for your relationship.

79.       No Interference

Do not allow other people to interfere with your relationship.  If family members try to get in the middle of fights or debates, that is definite trouble.  You might have friends with well-meant intentions trying to help you and your mate solve problems.  Although getting another person’s perspective is not a bad thing, make sure it is when you ask for it.  It is very important to keep integrity in your relationship and not allow people to interfere.

80.       Adore your Mate

Beyond telling your mate that you love them, that they are special, and having passion in your relationship, you should adore your mate and what they bring into the relationship.  What that means is to appreciate and love them for the person they are, faults and all.  This is true devotion to your mate and demonstration that you do not take them for granted.

81.       Follow Your Instincts

When things are going in a wrong direction, often people will simply keep going in the same direction while hoping that things work themselves out.  The result is usually negative.  Instead, listen to your gut feelings, your inner instincts.  If you believe that something is bothering your mate or not right in your relationship, keep it between you and your mate and work things out as a couple.

82.       Be Creative

The words, “I love you,” are always welcomed but why not add some creativity to the way you tell your mate you love them.  Rent a billboard in a location where you know your mate drives every day that clearly says, “I love you,” request that your mate’s radio station play a special song and message on his or her way to work, or if celebrating a special anniversary, have a skywriter fly by a ball stadium, park, or somewhere special where you are spending quality time together outdoors.

83.       Make Eye Contact

You may not think this is important, but think back to the first time you saw your now mate.  More than likely, the first interaction was through eye contact.  If you are having dinner during the holidays with a large group of family and friends, glance over to your mate and give them a seductive wink, or if your mate is giving a speech and you are there to offer support, attentively look at them, making directly eye contact and offer a warm reassuring smile.  Eyes can say a lot!

84.       Learn More about Your Mate

Either find a good questionnaire or create one that does not dig up the past, but focuses on discovering other qualities about each other.  One happily married couple did this and the wife, who had been standing by her husband for more than 10 years, discovered that he used to be a competitive ice skater.  She had no idea.  Guess what they did on Saturday?

85.       Change Routines

Understand that every once in a while, it is important to throw an exciting curve into your relationship.  If you are in a routine for example of offering your mate a quick peck on the lips before you part ways for the day, try adding a soft, gentle kiss on the neck.  You can be assured that throughout the day, that change in routine, is what will be on your mate’s mind.

86.       Dance

Finding a nice place where the two of you can enjoy a slow dance is a great way to spend time together, holding each other without saying a word.  Keep in mind that to accomplish this, you can stay home and simply move some furniture out of the way, light some candles, and put on your favorite soft music and enjoy some quiet, romantic time together.